1. Be the wrong man in the wrong place. She will be judging you long before you take any steps towards her. Don't skip the preliminary work before you go out. If you want her to have a good opinion of you, then you are completely responsible for creating that. Learn about fashion and dress in a way which makes women look after you. Ask someone who can help you. Alone most things are hard, but if you ask for help, a personal stylist can give you an image many women find hard to resist.

Practice your body language - look like a man who has control and is totally self-confident. Look like you own the room, anywhere you go. You will get it down with practice and it will become second nature.

So, don't neglect to do the work beforehand. You will thank yourself later.

2. Go in overly aggressive and direct. This is culturally-dependent, but in America most guys when they approach women tend to already be drunk and horny and not afraid to express it. They confront the girls with sleazy pick-up lines that are intended to express their sexual interest. If you simply stay (relatively) sober, approach her with something intelligent such as ,,Hey, I saw you from the other side of the room and I think you're interesting. I want to find out what you're like." and you don't make it look like the only reason why you're talking to her is that you want to get laid, you will go far.

Now, if you want to understand why these two things work so well that they do, you need to delve deep into female psychology and get to know how they think and what kind of things are important to them (it's nothing close to what you might think). I have written a full-length article detailing the things you need to know to understand women, and I also point out 5 pieces of often heard but WRONG advice. Read the article here: How To Get A Girl In Bed - 5 Things You DIDN'T Know.

Take care,

- Peter Bullritz

PS. I really suggest you take a look at the article, because you will move a big step ahead in your dating life. It's that good.