Do you have a hard time getting a guy? Do you think it's because you aren't pretty enough or thin enough? Could there be other factors involved, or are you destined to be lonely just because you aren't a cover model? The truth is you can get a guy just by adjusting your attitude and thinking about men and relationships.

Being unique holds a lot of power

Men come in contact with many women every day, and they are very aware of and used to the same tired, ineffective strategies some women use to get their attention. Flattery is one of these strategies, and while it may get a guy's attention for the short term, it isn't an effective method for long term success. Another failed method a lot of women try? Being too eager and available. It may be cute at first, but for a man it quickly becomes boring.

So stop doing what other women are trying and be unique. Show a man the depth of your personality and character. Give him something to be attracted to. Standing out from the crowd is one of the most effective ways to get a guy.

Don't expect a man to complete your life

Unfortunately it is easy to fall into the trap of believing that having a man in your life is the key to happiness and fulfillment. Men can sense it when a woman is trying to find happiness through a relationship, and they run. The message it sends to a man is that you will be impossible to please. Men know that they can't make you happy in and of themselves, and it's important for you to recognize that as well. True happiness comes from within. If something is missing in your life, explore and figure out what and why. Getting to the root of these issues will prepare you to be the kind of woman who makes her own happiness rather than waiting for it. You will have no problem getting a guy if you take responsibility for your own happiness in life rather than waiting for someone to give it to you.

If you want to get a guy, remember that you must set yourself apart from all other women. Give him something that he can't get anywhere else. Additionally, work at becoming content and happy in your life apart from a man. This combination will make you irresistible to just about any guy.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.