Get Him to Chase You - Play Hard to Get Like a ProBy
Tina L. Jones
Do you want to get him to chase you? Are you looking for the rules of hard to get so you can play it like a pro? Are you looking for a way to get him to chase you and end up with you in his arms? The game of hard to get just isn't in style today. However, it really excites men and gets them interested. Men want to work for the women in their lives, and by playing hard to get you can make it possible for him to do just that. You can get him to chase you with these methods.
Hard to get, but not impossible.
The first thing you need to do is make sure you have a good definition of hard to get. You don't want to get him to chase you and then have him give up because you have made it feel impossible for him to actually catch you. To make this happen you will want to make sure that you balance everything out. The key to a great game of hard to get is balance.
Capture his attention.
The first thing you need to do is capture his attention. You can't get him to chase after you if you don't have his attention before hand. To capture his attention you will want to start by being the best you can be. This means working on your inner self first. Build up your confidence, become the most positive person you can be, and learn to stay upbeat. After that look your best by emphasizing your best features and de-emphasizing your worst features using clothing, make up, and accessories. You complete this with some flirting and you will capture his attention for sure.
Follow the rules.
The rules of hard to get are simple, but they have to be well balanced to make it work. You need to be careful to follow them, but if it will work better a slightly different way to make it more balanced for your relationship it will be okay to adjust and tweak them.
1. Let him make the first move.
2. Make sure he has a lot of fun and that you have a lot of fun when you do go out.
3. Don't call him or seek him out. Let him do the work.
4. Stay busy in your life and don't sit around waiting for his call.
5. Make sure you let him know how much fun you had and that you are looking forward to his next call or your next date. This will balance out the fact that you aren't actively seeking him. You want him to know you are interested.
6. Have times when you are busy and miss his call or put a date off. To do this right you want to make sure you call him back or try to reschedule. For example, you may be busy Friday night and offer to go out on Saturday night or meet for Sunday brunch.
It is all about balance. You want to get him to chase you and to keep chasing you until he has caught you. This will take some work and some care, but will be well worth it in the end.